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Why Drug Addicts Get Into Relationships Immediately After Going To Rehab

You may be familiar with the old recovery cliche, “getting sober is easy; staying sober is hard.” Navigating your new life alone can seem like a daunting prospect. And now that you have given up on “people, places, and things,” it is natural to desire the closeness of another person. Many addicts new to recovery jump into relationships to avoid feeling alone. The sense of possibility that recovery brings you may make you feel ready for a new relationship. But most experts suggest waiting a year before diving into romance.

Early recovery is a time to work on yourself. It is a time to work on existing relationships still strained from your active addiction. One of the hardest things you will do in your recovery is facing your past mistakes to make amends. Romantic relationships are an easy way to avoid keeping the focus on you. But keeping the focus on you is crucial in the early months of recovery. Right now your recovery is so fresh that you may not be in the best mindset to pick the right romantic partner. Recovering drug addicts often attract other drug addicts. Two vulnerable people make for a problematic pairing in sobriety.

The Dangers of Dating

You may not realize it, but dating in early recovery poses a danger to your long-term sobriety. There are many reasons why:

  • Dating is a “high” like drugs and alcohol. Emotions you feel at the beginning of a new relationship are natural and healthy. The neurochemistry behind those feelings is like the effects of drugs and alcohol. You may be replacing one high for another.
  • Break-ups trigger relapses. Ending a relationship is tough for anyone. The pain is especially hard when you are learning to cope without illicit substances. A relationship that ends too soon may cause you to seek solace again with your drug of choice.
  • You open yourself up to vulnerability. As a newly recovering addict be wary of people looking to prey upon your vulnerable state. Watch out for addicts with years of sobriety who you may listen to as a mentor or sponsor. Keep the relationship professional.

Spend the first year of your sobriety focusing on you. Once you begin to know yourself, then love will follow. If you are ready to start your journey towards recovery, please feel free to contact us 24 hours a day at 800-737-0933

Detox Again? He Just Got Out Of Rehab in Florida!

It is hard to understand addiction sometimes. Some believe the problem can be dealt with will power while others think it’s a disease that can be cured. Having your loved one go through detox in Florida to see him go back might be disheartening, but there is more to it than you might imagine.

Addiction is Back?

Your loved one’s addiction never really left. One major goal of a good rehab center is to find a way to repress addiction or make it dormant. Your loved one is given the tools to continue to repress the addiction so that he can go back to his life as expected.

You should know that addiction is a deep rooted issue. Your loved one’s brain structure has been shifted through abuse, which makes it a lot easier for him to fall back into the addiction.

Did Detox Fail?

First of, the detox program did not fail as it did what it was supposed to do, which was to remove all toxic substances from your loved one’s body. This is merely the first step in a rehabilitation program and gives your loved one the opportunity to overcome this addiction.

In essence, a detox helps relieve the hold that these substances have on your loved one’s body. Detox centers are not meant to cure the disease, as mentioned earlier, so it did not really fail.

Should he Try Again?

Yes, what your loved one is going through is sometimes called a relapse. Something must have triggered his drug use, and he needs help to gain composure. Your loved one is equipped with the tools and will go to the rehabilitation center for additional help to fortify his ability to fight off triggers and urges.

The professionals at the rehabilitation center are likely going to try to focus on the trigger that caused the relapse. Perhaps this trigger was not discussed or your loved one needs more help understanding why he is having trouble fighting off the trigger. You and other people in his support system are now aware of the trigger’s power on your loved one, which should help protect him from another relapse.

There is no doubt that overcoming addiction is going to be hard. There may be setbacks like this one, but that does not mean you or your loved one should give up. This is an opportunity to learn and get better at suppressing the addiction. You know that he is willing because he already went to rehab once, so do not give up on him.

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My Son Has Been To Drug Rehab in Florida Several Times. Why Isn’t It Working?

Why Is Rehab Sometimes Unsuccessful

While drug rehab can be effective, it isn’t effective 100% of the time. Relapses are common. Here are some reasons why drug rehab can fail:

The Attendance Of Rehab Wasn’t The Person’s Own Choice:

Many people who attend rehab didn’t go entirely by their own choosing. These individuals are exceptionally prone to relapse. In some cases, the individual is heavily encouraged into rehab again after the relapse. However, these efforts are rarely successful until the individual makes their own personal decision to seek treatment.

Court ordered rehab is especially likely to be unsuccessful. In fact, some individuals who attend court ordered rehab have no intention of quitting drugs.

Lack Of Insight Into The Problems That Drugs Have Caused:

In some cases, an individual may attend drug rehab in Florida before they have been able to see the problems in their life that are caused by drugs. This may cause them to lack the commitment to permanently give up drugs. The point at which an individual sees the harm the drug has caused to them is often referred to as rock bottom. After an individual reaches this point, rehab is typically highly successful.

Disappointment With Sobriety:

On occasion, an individual who is addicted to drugs believes that quitting drugs will allow their life to become easy. This may temporarily cause them to be very excited about their recovery efforts. Unfortunately, if this is not the case, they may lose their willpower to continue with their recovery.

Lack Of Self Esteem:

In some cases, drug abuse is closely tied to negative views about oneself. An individual who is dependent on drugs may underestimate their positive attributes. There are even cases when an individual might unconsciously feel that they don’t deserve a different life. Furthermore, those with negative self esteem may underestimate their ability to quit drugs and/or alcohol due to not being able to see the level of willpower that they have.

Associations With Individuals Who Use Drugs:

If an individual who has had a problem with drugs or alcohol continues to associate with people who use their drug of choice or abuse alcohol, this can have an exceptionally powerful influence on them. This is true even if their friends are not saying or doing things that create overt peer pressure. For many individuals with a substance abuse problem, being around the drug could be enough to trigger a relapse.

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